Calling all Fashionistas!

I confess, I'm not a fashionista, by any means. More times than not I don't care what I look like when I go out as long as my hair is halfway decent. (I say halfway decent since I have naturally curly, frizzy hair that drives me nuts.) I do dress up a bit for work, sometimes dresses and skirts, but more often than not pants, because they are comfy. I don't wear much jewelry because I'm afraid I'm going to look like a fool when I wear it. Though I really like when others wear it, it just adds a finishing touch to an outfit.

Isn't that shoe lovely? It's Jimmy Choo's Griffin. It's only a mere $675. (I wish I could afford shoes that expensive!)

Anyway, I digress. What I need help with today is shoes. Now my husband would say that I have way too many shoes, but I truly don't. I have a love/hate relationship with shoes. I love cute shoes but have a hell of a time finding them in my size. My shoe size is about a 10 1/2 wide. Do you freaking know how hard it is to find a shoe in that size? Depending on the brand, I can wear a 10 or 11, but they have to be a wide.

The other day I was assisting in class, and noticed that this woman had beautiful black heels on. They looked amazing on her. I just loved them. They had about a 3 inch heel, shiny black, slightly pointed toes, very cute. She had on a very basic outfit, and these finished the look so to speak. That is what I need. Desperately.

My dilemma is first my shoe size, and second, in my jobs now, I need shoes that I can stand on for at least 4 hours. I'm on my feet a lot, running around in class. I need a comfy pair of high heels. Does such a thing exist? Or how do you survive wearing high-heeled shoes when you are your feet for extended periods of time? Any websites you can point me to? Or specific brands?

Help me fashionistas!!!! I desperately want cute, comfy, shoes that I can wear to work!